mind reading: how to know if your girlfriend is planning to or is cheating

In this second installment of x's mind game series, we are going to help you see signs when your wife or girl friend might be cheating on you. It is easy and you don't even need to hire a private investigator. All you need is just look and read all the signs that she is emanating.

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here are 6 likely situation which she might be going stray on you:

She's turning 25 . . . or 30 . . . or 35 . . .

Decade and half-decade birthdays trigger navel-gazing-figuratively, and perhaps literally. A woman asks herself, "What have I been doing for the past 5 years?" She'll think deeply about her love life and its direction, and if it's not going the way she planned, she might jump at the chance to correct it with an affair. The incidence of birthday cheating triples in women who report being in unhappy relationships.

When she got a promotion

Women like to have projects and goals. When she reaches a milestone-say, in her career -- she may start to think, Now what? For her next challenge, she may focus on another big part of her life -- say, her relationship. Riding the high of her work success, she'll feel that goals are achievable, and she'll be motivated to get the rest of her life on track. Also, women with fat salaries are more likely to cheat. A University of Washington study found that people who earned $75,000 or more per year were 1.5 times more likely to have had extramarital sex than those earning less than $30,000.

She thinks (or knows) you've cheated

Revenge affairs are common. Women have them in an attempt to restore self-esteem and feel desirable again. It comes down to human nature, she'll want to get even. She won't necessarily go out looking to hook up, but when she's tempted, the fact that you've done it may weaken her self-control.

She's not getting enough humping

Oxytocin, a hormone that plays a central role in our urge to bond, spikes to levels three to five times higher than usual just before orgasm. The hormone is more intense in females than in males, so women develop a stronger sense of bonding through sex.If the two of you are not having as much sex as you used to, she might interpret this as a sign that you don't find her attractive and that you don't love her, she may seek someone outside the relationship to validate that she's still sexually attractive.A so-so sex life could also mean you have unresolved problems between you. Research found that 79 percent of cheating women cited dissatisfaction in the marriage as the cause.

She's ready to dump your ass

One more reason a woman might cheat: She wants to dump you. Infidelity can break up couples, so she might cheat on purpose as an easy out.

so you know what are the likely situation that she is going to cheat on you, here are some signs that she might be already cheating on you...

She's accusing you

Often, when a woman accuses her mate of having romantic feelings or involvement with others, she's projecting her own feelings onto him. If your girlfriend lacks trust in you, she may not trust herself.

She wants more

If she's telling you she needs something else from the relationship, whether the request is for more intimacy or a stronger emotional connection, listen. A woman really lets you know what she's thinking about. If she tells you she's feeling unappreciated or unimportant, or wants more intimacy, it can be the last-ditch effort before she embarks on an affair.

She's online
If you're hearing "You've got mail" more than "I love you," she may be spending time searching the Web for someone to talk to. Even if she doesn't want to cheat, the Internet is particularly seductive for women.

She's looking hotter than ever

If she's started something on the side, sudden changes in behavior or appearance (for the better) are common.

She's sappier than ever

If she's watching romantic movies and reading romantic books, the feeling she's getting from them is feeding something inside of her. If her mate's not expressing these emotions in her direction, she might be looking for a new leading man.

She's more attentive to you

When a man's girlfriend is cheating, she'll start to make obvious attempts to increase his satisfaction in the relationship, as well as say derogatory things about her paramour. It's a misdirection ploy to lessen your suspicions.

She always sleeps earlier and is always tired

Need i say more?

more on x's school of mind tricks: learn the below
Novice level: how to find out how much your friend or co-workers are earning

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upon completion of the above, you will be promoted to "Prize Liar"


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